magistrsko delo
Abstract
Namen našega magistrskega dela je bil raziskati, kako odrasli otroci doživljajo odpuščanje svojim staršem in kakšne izkušnje imajo z njim. Na podlagi tega nas je zanimalo, kako odrasli otroci razumejo odpuščanje, koliko se zavedajo različnih vidikov odpuščanja (čustvenega, kognitivnega, duhovnega in vedenjskega vidika), kako se različni vidiki odpuščanja kažejo v njihovih konkretnih izkušnjah odpuščanja svojim staršem ter kakšno vrednost oz. pomen pripisujejo odpuščanju v svojem življenju.
V teoretičnem delu smo za boljše razumevanje opredelili pojem odpuščanja in ga razmejili od določenih pojmov, ki jih ljudje pogosto napačno zamenjujejo z odpuščanjem. Izpostavili smo tudi, v čem se odpuščanje odraslih otrok svojim staršem razlikuje od nekaterih drugih oblik odpuščanja (npr. partnerskega/zakonskega). V nadaljevanju smo opisali tipične čustvene, kognitivne, vedenjske in duhovne odzive otrok na krivične izkušnje ter pogledali, kakšne spremembe se tekom odpuščanja zgodijo na teh nivojih. Na koncu smo raziskali tudi posledice zamere in neodpuščanja ter koristi in spremembe, ki jih prinese odpuščanje.
V empiričnem delu smo s pomočjo fenomenološke metode opravili in analizirali osem polstrukturiranih intervjujev. Na podlagi rezultatov smo izpostavili osem glavnih tem, ki so se značilno pojavljale v opisu izkušenj udeležencev. Glavne teme opisujejo krivične izkušnje, ki so jih udeleženci doživeli v odnosu s svojimi straši, njihov takojšnji in kasnejši čustveni, kognitivni in vedenjski odziv na te izkušnje, razumevanje in vrednost odpuščanja za udeležence raziskave, pomen duhovnosti za odpuščanje bolečih izkušenj, posledice neodpuščanja ter pozitivne koristi in spremembe odpuščanja na čustvenem, kognitivnem, vedenjskem in duhovnem nivoju.
Keywords
odpuščanje odraslih otrok svojim staršem;proces odpuščanja;boleča čustvena stanja;krivična izkušnja;magistrske naloge;
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Language: |
Slovenian |
Year of publishing: |
2019 |
Typology: |
2.09 - Master's Thesis |
Organization: |
UL TEOF - Theological Faculty |
Publisher: |
[M. M. Krajnc] |
UDC: |
159.922.2-053.6-055.52(043.2) |
COBISS: |
8200794
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Secondary language: |
English |
Secondary title: |
The experience of adults in forgiving their parents |
Secondary abstract: |
The purpose of the dissertation is to research how adult children perceive forgiving their parents and what experience they have with forgiveness. We are interested in how adult children understand forgiveness, to what extent they are aware of different perspectives of forgiveness (emotive, cognitive, spiritual and behavioural perspective), how different perspectives of forgiveness are manifested in their actual experience in forgiving their parents, and what value or importance is attributed to forgiveness in their lives.
The theoretical part provides a definition of forgiveness for better understanding. This concept is also differentiated from other concepts that people often mistake for forgiveness. The difference between adult children forgiving their parents and other forms of forgiveness (e.g. partner or marital) is also stressed in the dissertation. Furthermore, typical emotive, cognitive, behavioural and spiritual reactions of children to unjust experience are described. The dissertation also observes how forgiveness changes on these levels. Finally, the dissertation focuses on the consequences of bearing a grudge and not forgiving; and on the advantages and changes of forgiveness.
The empirical part provides an analysis of eight semi-structured interviews that were carried out with the help of the phenomenological method. Based on the results, eight main topics that typically occur in the participants’ descriptions are highlighted. The main topics describe unjust experience the participants experience in the relationship with their parents, their immediate and latter emotive, cognitive and behavioural reaction to this experience, how participants understand and value forgiveness, the importance of spirituality in forgiveness of painful events, the consequences of not forgiving and the advantages and changes of forgiveness on the emotive, cognitive, behavioural and spiritual level. |
Secondary keywords: |
adult children forgiving their parents;process of forgiveness;painful emotional states;unjust experience; |
Type (COBISS): |
Master's thesis/paper |
Study programme: |
0 |
Embargo end date (OpenAIRE): |
1970-01-01 |
Thesis comment: |
Univ. v Ljubljani, Teološka fak. |
Pages: |
VI, 133, III str. |
ID: |
11234990 |