magistrska naloga študijskega programa druge stopnje
Abstract
Pričujoča magistrska naloga se posveča reševanju konfliktov v partnerskem odnosu.
Omenjena tema nas je pritegnila iz več razlogov. Menimo, da sta veliko število razvez v naši
družbi ter vse večje nezadovoljstvo v partnerskih odnosih največkrat posledica nerazrešenih
konfliktov med partnerjema. Dejstvo je, da nerazrešeni partnerski konflikti, ki se odražajo v
obliki potlačenih čustev (jeze, žalosti), slabo vplivajo na psihofizično zdravje posameznika in
na kvaliteto njegovega življenja. Ker se tudi sami srečujemo s konflikti v partnerskem odnosu
(le-ti so po našem mnenju neizbežni), smo želeli raziskati, kako pari rešujejo konflikte, ki
nastanejo med njimi, in v čem vidijo smisel reševanja le-teh. Obenem nas je zanimalo, kako
sprotno reševanje konfliktov vpliva na nadaljnji partnerski odnos.
V teoretičnem delu so predstavljeni pojem partnerskega odnosa in razvoj le-tega, izražanje
čustev in osnovnih človekovih potreb v odnosu ter pojem partnerskega konflikta skozi
posamične stopnje in njegovo razreševanje. Nadalje je nekoliko podrobneje predstavljen
model kognitivne terapije pri reševanju partnerskih konfliktov. V naši raziskavi smo izvedli
sedem strukturiranih intervjujev med pari, pri čemer smo intervjuvali tri ženske in štiri moške
kot predstavnike posameznega para. Vsak izmed njih je dobil trinajst enakih vprašanj, ki so se
nanašala na partnerski odnos, partnerski konflikt, reševanje partnerskega konflikta ter na
vzdušje med partnerjema ob nastalem konfliktu. Na koncu sledi empirični del. V empiričnem
delu so predstavljeni rezultati analize, preko katerih lahko vidimo, da intervjuvani pari
povečini nimajo večjih burnih prepirov v medsebojnih odnosih, pač pa manjše prepire, ki jih
običajno rešujejo s pogovorom, nekateri tudi z umikom. Sprotno reševanje konfliktov vidijo
pari kot veliko priložnost za nadaljnji razvoj samega odnosa in njegovo pozitivno rast.
Obenem pari v tem odkrijejo najgloblji smisel reševanja medosebnih konfliktov.
Keywords
partnerski odnos;konflikt;viri konflikta;čustva;reševanje konflikta;komunikacija;osebnostna rast;
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Language: |
Slovenian |
Year of publishing: |
2014 |
Typology: |
2.09 - Master's Thesis |
Organization: |
FUDŠ - School of advanced social studies |
Publisher: |
[P. Šibav] |
UDC: |
159.943.2(043.2) |
COBISS: |
1024652353
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Secondary language: |
English |
Secondary abstract: |
This master thesis focuses on resolving conflicts in a relationship. The aforementioned theme
attracted us for several reasons. We believe that the high number of divorces in our society
and the growing dissatisfaction in intimate relationships, are often the result of unresolved
conflicts between partners. The fact is that unresolved partnership conflicts, reflected in the
form of repressed emotions (anger, sadness) negative impact on the psychological and
physical health of the individual and the quality of his life. Since we have been also faced
with conflicts in partnership (these are in our opinion inevitable), we wanted to explore how
couples resolve conflicts that arise between them and how they see the sense of resolving
them. At the same time we were wondering how the resolving of ongoing conflicts affect the
continued partnership.
In the theoretical part we wrote about concept of partnership and the development thereof,
expressing feelings and basic human needs in relationship and partnership concept conflict
through individual instance and its solution. Furthermore, it is somewhat greater detail model
of cognitive therapy in resolving the partnership conflicts. In our research we conducted seven
structured interviews among couples in which we interviewed three women and four men as
representatives of each pair. Each of them got thirteen equal questions that were related to
partnership, partnership conflicts, resolve conflict in partnership in the atmosphere between
the partners at the resulting conflict. At the end follows the empirical part. In this part we
introduced the results of my analysis. We can see that the majority of the interviewed couples
do not have a large heated quarrels in their mutual relations, but minor squabbles, which are
usually settled through talks, some of the withdrawal. Ongoing conflict resolution are seen by
couples as a great opportunity for the further development of the relationship and its positive
growth. At the same time couples detect the deepest sense of resolving their conflicts.
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Secondary keywords: |
partnership;conflict;the sources of conflict;emotions;the resolving of conflict;communication;personal growth; |
Type (COBISS): |
Master's thesis/paper |
Thesis comment: |
Fak. za uporabne družbene študije v Novi Gorici |
Pages: |
65 str., [33] str. pril. |
ID: |
13184902 |