magistrsko delo
Tanja Mestek (Author), Barbara Simonič (Mentor)

Abstract

Razpad partnerske zveze je lahko ena izmed težjih izkušenj, ki jo posameznik doživi v življenju. Razhod v svojem jedru pomeni izgubo, je potrebno gledati na to izkušnjo iz vidika procesa žalovanja z vsemi čustvenimi fazami. Ko se oseba sooča z izgubo, lahko doživlja zelo boleča čustvena stanja, kot so žalost, jeza, bes, šok, sovraštvo, krivda, strah, obup, nemoč, zavrženost, ljubosumje, osamljenost, pogrešanje, razočaranje in še veliko drugih neprijetnih občutkov. Pomembno je, da si posameznik v tem procesu dovoli čutiti vsa čustvena stanja, ki se pojavijo, drugače se ne more premakniti naprej in integrirati izgubo v življenje. Lahko pa se razvije tudi disfunkcionalno simptomatsko vedenje. V magistrskem delu smo s pomočjo kvalitativne metode znanstvenega raziskovanja, in sicer fenomenološke psihološke metode, želeli dobiti vpogled v čustveno doživljanje žensk, ki so se soočale z razpadom partnerske zveze. S pomočjo polstrukturiranih intervjujev, ki smo jih opravili s šestimi udeleženkami, smo dobili vpogled v čustveno doživljanje v procesu soočanja z razpadom partnerske zveze. Med udeleženkami je bila polovica tistih, ki so bile zapuščene s strani partnerja, in polovica tistih, ki so se odločile za konec razmerja. Tako smo lahko dobili tudi vpogled v morebitno razliko v doživljanju med tema dvema skupinama. Udeleženke so pri čustvenem doživljanju opisovale čustveni spekter, ki je zajemal vse ? od šoka, zanikanja, žalosti, jeze, besa, krivde, tesnobe, gnusa, ljubosumja, zavrženosti, in tudi pozitivnih občutkov, kot so sreča, svoboda, olajšanje, veselje, upanje, moč. Pri telesnem doživljanju so posameznice poročale o joku, utrujenosti, oteženem dihanju, bruhanju in otopelosti. Kljub temu da je partnerski razhod lahko boleča izkušnja, je hkrati priložnost, ki pomaga osebi razrešiti težka čutenja, najti pot zopet k sebi in za nov začetek.

Keywords

partnerska zveza;razhod;izguba;fenomenološka metoda;čustveno doživljanje;

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Language: Slovenian
Year of publishing:
Typology: 2.09 - Master's Thesis
Organization: UL TEOF - Theological Faculty
Publisher: [T. Mestek]
UDC: 159.942-055.2:316.363.5(043.2)
COBISS: 80342787 Link will open in a new window
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Secondary language: English
Secondary title: Emotional experience by women in the process of coping with the breakup
Secondary abstract: The breakup of a relationship can be one of the more difficult experiences in a person's life. In its core a breakup means loss; this experience must be viewed from the perspective of the grieving process and all its emotional stages. When persons are confronted with loss they may experience very painful emotions, e.g. sorrow, anger, rage, shock, hatred, guilt, fear, despair, helplessness, rejection, jealousy, loneliness, longing, disappointment, and many other unpleasant emotions. It is important that those undergoing this process allow themselves to feel all the emotions that arise; otherwise, they will not be able to move on and integrate this loss into their lives. Dysfunctional symptomatic behaviour may develop. Using the qualitative method of scientific research, i.e. the phenomenological psychological method, the master's thesis aims to gain an insight into the emotions experienced by women facing a breakup. By means of semi-structured interviews conducted with six interviewees, I gained an insight into the emotions experienced by women when dealing with a breakup. Half of the interviewees had been left by their partners, while the other half were those who had decided to end the relationship; that way, an insight was gained into the potential differences in how these two groups experienced the breakup. When describing the emotions they experienced, the interviewees mentioned a number of emotions ranging from shock, denial, sorrow, anger, rage, guilt, anxiety, disgust, jealousy to rejection, as well as positive emotions, such as happiness, freedom, relief, joy, hope, strength. As for how they experienced it physically, the women reported crying, feeling tired, having difficulty breathing, vomiting, and feeling numb. Although a breakup can be a painful experience, it is nevertheless an opportunity for people to deal with difficult emotions, find their way back to their true selves, and start over.
Secondary keywords: relationship;breakup;loss;phenomenological method;emotions experienced;
Type (COBISS): Master's thesis/paper
Study programme: 0
Thesis comment: Univ. v Ljubljani, Teološka fak.
Pages: XI, 92, II str.
ID: 13612718